AS BASED ON THE COMMENT I GOT ON THE LAST POST:



we are brought up to believe that love like in the movies exists and that is what we should hold on to and settle for nothing less. just like Snow White's Prince, he should give it all for us to the extent of kissing our dead lips and declaring undying love to our dead self. and also just like Shrek, he should let go of all the stigma on how he feels about certain things and consider only the fact that he loves us. but we seem to miss other really grate important facts like:



1) the Princess loved the frog so much that she kissed it regardless of it being a frog and

2) it was Beaty's love the broke the Beast's spell.



you see, as girls, we should be willing to give just as much as we are getting - even more at times. the male species is not made with this "read mind" gene that we expect and just as much as we at times feel unsure, so do they.



this man is teaching me so much. he is helping me remember that i am me and i am an individual that exists and existed before he came along.

you see the thing that made sense to me was dropping everything for him. what made sense to me was being at his back and call at all times should he require. i mean after all my girls could not give that slight butterfly-in-my-tummy feeling that he had seemed to master.



the insanity of all this only hit home near our brake up when he coldly said that it seemed like i wanted things to move really fast. that it seemed like i wanted to skip all steps and immidiatly be at the inseprable stage. as hurtful as it was to hear that, it also opened my eyes to the fact that all the things that seem to fall into place in the movies was not the same thing in real like. thathe is him and has his own way of doing things.

in a future blog i shall lay out all the things about him that are... him